Welcome

Hello, I am a mom/stepmom/wife/sister/daughter/friend/pet owner/coworker/student… etc, and I Don’t Give A Fuck (IDGAF). In this world full of shamers and belittlers I have chosen to not GAF. We spend so much of our time worrying about what people will think of us, our children, our pets, our homes, our vehicles…. I truly believe that we have forgotten what it’s like to not GAF. Do you remember being a little girl and picking your wedgy and not looking around to see if anyone saw you do it? Do you remember being a teenager and thinking that there was no one that knew as much as you did? Do you remember the feeling of doing something just because it made you happy? Well I do! And I am out to find that feeling every single day of my life. Does this mean that I don’t have real problems? Does this mean I am a spoiled privileged rich kid who doesn’t understand the struggle of living pay check to pay check? NOT AT ALL! I am a 35 yr old woman with 1 biological 15 yr old son, 2 step children ( girl 14 boy 10 ), a husband ( whom I love to hate and vice versa ), 2 dogs, I work part time at 2 different jobs and am a FT student. Trust me when I say that I deal with stress on the daily. But what is stress? Is it the dishes that didn’t get done the night before? Or the garbage that the dog decided he would drag from one end of the house to the other? Or possibly your teenager has you so rattled that you wonder if adoption is still an option?Honestly….. It’s none of these things, it’s how you choose to see and deal with each and every situation that crosses your path. I am not here to tell anyone how to deal with stress or the struggles you deal with. I am simply here to share my stories, my victories and my fails ( trust me there are a lot of each!), and the things I do to not GAF! Hopefully following along on my journey will encourage anyone who reads this to chime in, or possibly just to help take you away from your own daily drama… Stay tuned…..